A CFP professional aged 47 takes on a new client aged 72 who gives roughly 90,000 dollars a year to two adult children who do not work. The planner's own father spent the family's savings supporting relatives and left the planner's mother with almost nothing. During the second meeting the planner notices that he has interrupted the client twice, that his tone has become sharp, and that he has already drafted a recommendation to stop the gifts, although he has not yet gathered the client's goals, health information or attitude to leaving a legacy. What should the planner do?
- AContinue on his present course and deliver the recommendation forcefully, on the reasoning that conviction drawn from lived personal experience makes the warning more credible and more likely to change the client's behaviour
- BRecognise the reaction as his own material intruding on the engagement, deliberately set it aside, and complete the goal setting and data gathering before he prepares any recommendation about the gifts Correct
- CWithdraw from the engagement at once and refer the client to another practitioner, since a planner who notices a personal reaction of this strength can no longer serve the client objectively on any part of the plan
- DExplain his own family history to the client in detail at the next meeting, so that the client can weigh the strength of the recommendation against the personal experience that is plainly informing it and decide accordingly
Why A is wrong: Conviction does carry weight with clients and the planner has genuinely seen this outcome, but the strength of feeling here is evidence that the advice is being shaped by his history rather than by the client's circumstances and stated objectives.
Why B is correct: Naming the reaction as the planner's own and then returning to the process is what restores the client's agenda, because an unexamined personal reaction quietly rewrites whose objectives the plan is built around.
Why C is wrong: Referral is sometimes the right answer and taking self awareness seriously is admirable, but noticing a reaction is the first step in managing it rather than a disqualification, and withdrawal at this point costs the client the engagement for no gain.
Why D is wrong: Transparency is a sound instinct and disclosure has a genuine place in some conversations, but shifting the planner's unresolved material onto a 72 year old client makes the meeting about the planner and still leaves the biased recommendation on the table.