Owen, aged 52, has agreed with his planner that his retirement savings rate is too low for the retirement age he wants. When the planner suggests raising his workplace pension contribution from 4 per cent of pay to 10 per cent, Owen says that advisers push everyone to save more, that he has heard the speech before, and that he will not be lectured about his own money. He stays in the meeting and does not end the engagement. Applying motivational interviewing, how should the planner respond?
- ASet out the compounded shortfall in dollars at his target retirement age and repeat the recommendation to move to 10 per cent, this time with the full arithmetic attached to it
- BAccept that he has declined the recommendation, drop the savings question from the engagement, and move the meeting on to the insurance review that was scheduled for later
- CPoint out to him that his reaction is defensive and ask whether he is avoiding the subject because of a money script he absorbed from the way his parents handled income
- DReflect back that he has heard this advice before and does not want to be pushed into it, then ask him what he would want his own position to look like by the age of sixty Correct
Why A is wrong: The projection is accurate and a planner is right to have it ready, but repeating a rejected recommendation with more evidence is arguing for change, and the predictable result is that Owen voices the arguments against it and commits himself further to the position he holds.
Why B is wrong: Not arguing is half of the technique and this option gets that much right, but rolling with resistance means redirecting the conversation rather than abandoning the goal, and dropping a topic the client has already agreed matters leaves the shortfall unaddressed.
Why C is wrong: Beliefs learned in childhood do shape saving behaviour and are a legitimate subject for later work, but labelling a client's response as defensive in the moment is a judgement he is likely to resist, and it moves the conversation on to the planner's interpretation instead of his goals.
Why D is correct: Reflecting the resistance rather than opposing it removes the thing Owen is pushing against, and the question that follows invites him to state his own goal, which is where motivation has to come from if the change is to survive the meeting.